Relationship

THOSE IN LOVE

Those things that hurt instruct. My boyfriend is cheating on me, my husband is keeping late nights so he's having an affair so it means he's having an affair. Words like this are what we hear from women day in day out but the facts still re mains that either of the two thoughts may be right or wrong.

Teresa  a business woman in her late 20s said, she's been having an affair with a guy for over six years and was in love with him.  she was hoping he would pop the question during their anniversary dinner but instead he wanted to end their relationship because he was in love with another woman and they were getting married in two weeks

Matilda, a married woman with three children said her husband had become withdrawn, he doesn't eat in the house and rarely comes home and when he does, he comes late in the night and leaves early in the morning. she said two weeks ago,she came back home from work and found her luggage and her children outside crying. it was then she discovered that her husband had married secretly and had brought the woman home,  she said when she threatened to sue him due to their court marriage he beat her and she was hospitalized  for 2 weeks.

Alex, an accountant said he's tired of dating his nagging girlfriend and he doesnt know how to break it off with her especially because he was already in love with the new girl he's seeing.

Relationships can be very tricky,its one thing to thing to undersand and trust your patners and it takes patience,trust,loyalty,understanding,most importantly love and other factors  to be in a relationship.

 

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most people nowadays go into relationships for a reason like money,companionship among others. Jean De La Fountaine once said friendship is the shadow of the evening which increases with the setting sun of life,this means that in every relationship there has to be friendship. every relationship without friendship does not live to see the setting  sun of life because there will be problems and those problems may lead to the breakdown of the relationship.

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In this modern age most people think relationships cannot work without sex,violence,drugs,and other bad and influencing things but the truth that it can work without them. A relationship consists of two people who understand each other, they should sit down and talk about their differences,be comfortable in each other's presence.

There is a saying that says 'a man would know within the first 15 seconds of meeting a woman if he's going to marry her or not', we do not know how true that is but if  know you know you are not going to have any feelings towards a person except sexual feeling, why go into a relationship with the person and at the end of the day break the person's heart.

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Soctates a philosopher said 'by all means , marry,if you get a good wife become happy,if you get a bad one ,you'l become a philosopher.be in a relationship for a good reason(love)even if there are problems they would be easier to solve them than when you are not.